"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I should apologise for reading all this and still be talking about it. I guess I just want to throw all my arguments out there and still know you're right.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It's hard for you to understand right now. What we say may be completely foreign to you. A lot of us have come on this board because of heartbreak and getting out life on track. The sooner you realize that we are people trying to help, you can improve yourself. That my friend is the absolute greatest revenge, true story
 
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Jesus healed Mr. blind Bartimaeus. He is the same today, tomorrow and forever. He would heal you too, have a little faith and hang in there brah.

"Can't bring yourself to do it"?! This kind of behaviour/mindset must have been effectual in you receiving lotta sh!t from her during the relationship. No wonder she wants to keep you around for more sh!t collecting.
 
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You know you are weak and will bang her.. Wus. It's not gonna be any more satisfying 3 weeks from now than if you don't.. I'd move on. Because YOU WILL end up walking away hurt because you are emotionally attached.
 
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You know you are weak and will bang her.. Wus. It's not gonna be any more satisfying 3 weeks from now than if you don't.. I'd move on. Because YOU WILL end up walking away hurt because you are emotionally attached.
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This is spot on.

However maybe it will be a good life lesson for this fella to make such a fatal mistake and endure such emotional hardships? He'll learn a valuable lesson that way.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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