"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Friends with benefits.

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As the title suggests, how does one go about to acquire this status? Is there a certain procedure that can be done in order to land yourself in such a situation? Or do you just get lucky?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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there are alot of women out there (especially the more independant and successful women) who don't want to be bogged down by a relationship, but still want a stable sex life.

these are the kinds of women who are most receptive of such deals. Also, they appreciate you being straight about your intentions sooner rather than later. At least my two FWB are like that.
 

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POTENTIALLY EVERY WOMAN IS FWB..........BUTT..........you just keep that on a need to know basis. So heres how............

U meet them, escalate to kino...........make sure the sex is amazing.......never spend the night.

U dont call them on a regular basis..........do blather on on the phone, make sure your "dates" circumscribe around sex. Foget the movies, dinners, calling them 5 times a week, just pump and run. Seriously she'll get the idea.
 

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there's this girl that was obsessed about me and i turned her into a fvck buddy/friends with benefits.
he's hot, needy, and wants sex any time i call her.
 

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COD said:
POTENTIALLY EVERY WOMAN IS FWB..........BUTT..........you just keep that on a need to know basis. So heres how............

U meet them, escalate to kino...........make sure the sex is amazing.......never spend the night.

U dont call them on a regular basis..........do blather on on the phone, make sure your "dates" circumscribe around sex. Foget the movies, dinners, calling them 5 times a week, just pump and run. Seriously she'll get the idea.
This is when you meet new people and this makes perfect sense. I guess what I originally meant to say was make a FWB situation out of existing friends, is that possible?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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