"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Friends with benefits.

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As the title suggests, how does one go about to acquire this status? Is there a certain procedure that can be done in order to land yourself in such a situation? Or do you just get lucky?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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there are alot of women out there (especially the more independant and successful women) who don't want to be bogged down by a relationship, but still want a stable sex life.

these are the kinds of women who are most receptive of such deals. Also, they appreciate you being straight about your intentions sooner rather than later. At least my two FWB are like that.
 
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POTENTIALLY EVERY WOMAN IS FWB..........BUTT..........you just keep that on a need to know basis. So heres how............

U meet them, escalate to kino...........make sure the sex is amazing.......never spend the night.

U dont call them on a regular basis..........do blather on on the phone, make sure your "dates" circumscribe around sex. Foget the movies, dinners, calling them 5 times a week, just pump and run. Seriously she'll get the idea.
 
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there's this girl that was obsessed about me and i turned her into a fvck buddy/friends with benefits.
he's hot, needy, and wants sex any time i call her.
 
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COD said:
POTENTIALLY EVERY WOMAN IS FWB..........BUTT..........you just keep that on a need to know basis. So heres how............

U meet them, escalate to kino...........make sure the sex is amazing.......never spend the night.

U dont call them on a regular basis..........do blather on on the phone, make sure your "dates" circumscribe around sex. Foget the movies, dinners, calling them 5 times a week, just pump and run. Seriously she'll get the idea.
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This is when you meet new people and this makes perfect sense. I guess what I originally meant to say was make a FWB situation out of existing friends, is that possible?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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