"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Friends with benefits.

CarbonFX

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As the title suggests, how does one go about to acquire this status? Is there a certain procedure that can be done in order to land yourself in such a situation? Or do you just get lucky?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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there are alot of women out there (especially the more independant and successful women) who don't want to be bogged down by a relationship, but still want a stable sex life.

these are the kinds of women who are most receptive of such deals. Also, they appreciate you being straight about your intentions sooner rather than later. At least my two FWB are like that.
 

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POTENTIALLY EVERY WOMAN IS FWB..........BUTT..........you just keep that on a need to know basis. So heres how............

U meet them, escalate to kino...........make sure the sex is amazing.......never spend the night.

U dont call them on a regular basis..........do blather on on the phone, make sure your "dates" circumscribe around sex. Foget the movies, dinners, calling them 5 times a week, just pump and run. Seriously she'll get the idea.
 

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there's this girl that was obsessed about me and i turned her into a fvck buddy/friends with benefits.
he's hot, needy, and wants sex any time i call her.
 

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COD said:
POTENTIALLY EVERY WOMAN IS FWB..........BUTT..........you just keep that on a need to know basis. So heres how............

U meet them, escalate to kino...........make sure the sex is amazing.......never spend the night.

U dont call them on a regular basis..........do blather on on the phone, make sure your "dates" circumscribe around sex. Foget the movies, dinners, calling them 5 times a week, just pump and run. Seriously she'll get the idea.
This is when you meet new people and this makes perfect sense. I guess what I originally meant to say was make a FWB situation out of existing friends, is that possible?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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