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Originally posted by 08aisaac
Like the government seems to realize that everyone is becoming obese so they are slowly trying to get us lazy ass americans into shape.
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Originally posted by 08aisaac
Like the government seems to realize that everyone is becoming obese so they are slowly trying to get us lazy ass americans into shape.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
*sigh* so many optionsOriginally posted by bladeux
What about the "I don't care" attitude?
Like he could even make fun of HIMSELF... they will be like "he doesn't care" so they will eventually stop... no?
My brother and his friends used to laugh at me all the time cause I was really bad with girls but at some point I eventually made fun of it myself... and they stopped.
Fighting is really not the solution... they'll just laugh at you some more and you'll look stupid.
Just laugh about it ... They'll get bored
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
LOL! I do the exact same thing!!Originally posted by jenzos
it seems since I am the biggest in my "group" but I am the most chill laid back they think they can talk **** every once in a while. So i have to keep them in line by giving them a little violence.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.