"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Friends trying to break us up

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Kamikazi1231

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Just need a little advice. My GF's got a couple of those friends... you know the ugly hb2s that are jealous as hell of me(they tell her all the damn time). But the problem is they are now getting into the phase where they want her back and are trying to subvert my GF into breaking it up. I've been bringing the boys along as wingmen to distract them but I was wondering if anyone else had any other ideas on how to counter these girls. My buds can only do so much to keep them off our backs. Thanks.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ValleyDJing

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tough situation. Its dangerous...but you could always just tell those b-words off once and for all. Could kill your relationship tho...but hey! It would feel great! haha! and the key word is Could kill your relationship. Might be ok...you never know.
 
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The reason they're trying to break you apart is because they don't like you. It's imperative that you change their minds rather than fight them for control. If you get into a pissing contest between a girl and her friends you will lose. So turn them into allies, let her go out with them every now and then, let them know that you don't want to come between them. They'll think you're sweet as pie and will actually go to bat for you if there are problems in your relationship.
 
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