"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Friends trying to break us up

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Kamikazi1231

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Just need a little advice. My GF's got a couple of those friends... you know the ugly hb2s that are jealous as hell of me(they tell her all the damn time). But the problem is they are now getting into the phase where they want her back and are trying to subvert my GF into breaking it up. I've been bringing the boys along as wingmen to distract them but I was wondering if anyone else had any other ideas on how to counter these girls. My buds can only do so much to keep them off our backs. Thanks.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ValleyDJing

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tough situation. Its dangerous...but you could always just tell those b-words off once and for all. Could kill your relationship tho...but hey! It would feel great! haha! and the key word is Could kill your relationship. Might be ok...you never know.
 
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The reason they're trying to break you apart is because they don't like you. It's imperative that you change their minds rather than fight them for control. If you get into a pissing contest between a girl and her friends you will lose. So turn them into allies, let her go out with them every now and then, let them know that you don't want to come between them. They'll think you're sweet as pie and will actually go to bat for you if there are problems in your relationship.
 
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