“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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It seems like the more I have improved myself and my life the more a lot of my friends have started to resent me. Now that I believe in myself, I am doing better in school, started working out, have goals for the future, and am a lot happier.

But this seems to have upset my friends. They try to say Im arrogant and I think Im better then other people. I dont think I am or even give off that impression. The people saying this arent really doing anything with their lives, so I think the fact that they see me trying to make something of myself gives them a bad impression.

I was wondering if anyone else has had friends who have acted like this. I dont know if I should continue to be friends with them knowing they resent me, or just find some new people with a similar outlook on life. I know I need to meet some new people regardless of my other friends.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Sometimes you need to come the realization that your friends aren't happy with you cause they are insecure. It's not good to have friends who not only look down upon you improving yourself, but also friends who don't want to improve their own person.

While you don't want to break ties with your friends (obviously), try and meet some new ones. You'd be suprised how new people can change your whole perspective.
 
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Its seems a bit odd that they are saying you are arrogant and you are doing nothing to provoke this. How is that possible? Are you bragging about yourself in front of them or something to that effect? Are you giving them advice when they haven't asked for any?

Anyway... if your new personality doesn't match theirs then you need to find new friends on the same wavelength as you - you can't make people like you.
 
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The only thing arrogant I do is take college seriously. I know thats my future so I make it a top priority.

They dont go to college or have any real future plans.
 
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i think your friends are scared that you are going off bettering yourself and dont have time for them anymore.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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