"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Friend's Issue Calling all DJ's

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Stu951

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Hi guys, I have a friend who asked me to post here for him. See if you can help us out here. I have a friend who's very suave with women, he's been in many relationships and fearless about striking up conversations with any girl he still has no fear of rejection.

He's currently dating this girl for 5 months and he suspects her interest level to be dropping as she's starting to play too many games ( She would call him everyday not miss one, and hint at making plans. Then when plans came up last minute she would cancel on him. this went on for the last 3 weeks ) He made no attempt now to talk to her yet, the girl still calls him and plays these games, stating weird things like "Aww you miss me" and "Don't yell at me" like stuff that even left him really turned off he also catchs her in his lies.

Now I bet your asking why is my friend still with her.... I don't get it?

Now this question is for you guys, has anyone else run into a girl that totally switchs her feelings in a split second? How should he deal with this? Could it be that my suave friend made a mistake and is knee deep? All the women he ever dated have been nothing but great friends to him, now this one changed his entire preception it seems. I don't want to run into this situation myself so I'm trying to be prepared as well as offer him some advice as well.

Please DJ's lend me your opinions and out look.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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rgeere

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I don't think that it is her interest level; I think he ran himself into a manipulative immature c@ck teasing b;tch ...

He can play games with her if he wants, but any mature man would walk away from that one [unless of course he wants to lower himself to HER level'.]

She's not worth it ... Move on ....
 
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TillTheEndOfTime

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Originally posted by Stu951
He moved on and dropped it today! He said thanks.
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Good for him. He made the right choice. No real man would put up with that crap from a woman.
 
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