"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Friend's Issue Calling all DJ's

Stu951

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Hi guys, I have a friend who asked me to post here for him. See if you can help us out here. I have a friend who's very suave with women, he's been in many relationships and fearless about striking up conversations with any girl he still has no fear of rejection.

He's currently dating this girl for 5 months and he suspects her interest level to be dropping as she's starting to play too many games ( She would call him everyday not miss one, and hint at making plans. Then when plans came up last minute she would cancel on him. this went on for the last 3 weeks ) He made no attempt now to talk to her yet, the girl still calls him and plays these games, stating weird things like "Aww you miss me" and "Don't yell at me" like stuff that even left him really turned off he also catchs her in his lies.

Now I bet your asking why is my friend still with her.... I don't get it?

Now this question is for you guys, has anyone else run into a girl that totally switchs her feelings in a split second? How should he deal with this? Could it be that my suave friend made a mistake and is knee deep? All the women he ever dated have been nothing but great friends to him, now this one changed his entire preception it seems. I don't want to run into this situation myself so I'm trying to be prepared as well as offer him some advice as well.

Please DJ's lend me your opinions and out look.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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rgeere

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I don't think that it is her interest level; I think he ran himself into a manipulative immature c@ck teasing b;tch ...

He can play games with her if he wants, but any mature man would walk away from that one [unless of course he wants to lower himself to HER level'.]

She's not worth it ... Move on ....
 

TillTheEndOfTime

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Originally posted by Stu951
He moved on and dropped it today! He said thanks.
Good for him. He made the right choice. No real man would put up with that crap from a woman.
 
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