"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Friends into relationships?

JDMHonduh

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I was interested in a girl who I actually found to be a very nice person and not a scene girl or show off, she found out I was interested in her and immediatly said she really ONLY liked me as a friend but I was just curious is it possible to possibly try and get into a relationship w/ her or did she like basically cut it off?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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SexinEar

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Dude read the bible, you got slammed soo hard into the ljbf zone. She cut it off, move on.
 

JDMHonduh

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I know I got slammed really hard its almost embarrasing to hang out w/ her anymore... im trying to just cut off our friendship. She was confusing me tho saying that im a relle cool guy and when i would ask wat time she needed to be home she said it doesnt matter my dad knows I am with you so to him your like god.. but w/e ill more on..

Its so hard to find a non slutty non show off girl just a nice girl..
 

Jerky Boi

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Ah man, I feel ya about the whole nice girl thing. Well, it's always hard when you're looking in the wrong direction. Try and meet women at other places. I'm not exactly saying you're not going to have a chance with this girl because you blew it the first time, but it's not going to be easy. You've already affirmed that you are in the friends zone now, and there are tons of articles concerning this issue. I'm not exactly an older DJ but I've been around for a while. What you need to do is surround yourself with other women, and keep her off of your mind for a while. By doing this you will have fun while attracting her back again and maybe she'll come around for a second go. Just don't mess it up next time! By the way, I like the name. I'm into the JDM scene too.
 

JDMHonduh

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I think the only way she will come back to me for a second go would probably be pressure from her sister or when she is over the guy she is attracted to now. I think one of the main reasons she turned me down was just because I made it obvious at the wrong time while she was in love w/ another guy. Maybe once she gets over him she'll come back but for now I think I will still hang out w. her while having more girls to help me forget her. Do you suggest I ignore her for a while or just keep being friends?

Oh yeah I am into the JDM Honda scene I have a 1999 Acura Integra LS and a 2000 Acura Integra Type R w/ a JDM front end.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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