"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Friends into relationships?

JDMHonduh

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I was interested in a girl who I actually found to be a very nice person and not a scene girl or show off, she found out I was interested in her and immediatly said she really ONLY liked me as a friend but I was just curious is it possible to possibly try and get into a relationship w/ her or did she like basically cut it off?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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SexinEar

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Dude read the bible, you got slammed soo hard into the ljbf zone. She cut it off, move on.
 

JDMHonduh

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I know I got slammed really hard its almost embarrasing to hang out w/ her anymore... im trying to just cut off our friendship. She was confusing me tho saying that im a relle cool guy and when i would ask wat time she needed to be home she said it doesnt matter my dad knows I am with you so to him your like god.. but w/e ill more on..

Its so hard to find a non slutty non show off girl just a nice girl..
 

Jerky Boi

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Ah man, I feel ya about the whole nice girl thing. Well, it's always hard when you're looking in the wrong direction. Try and meet women at other places. I'm not exactly saying you're not going to have a chance with this girl because you blew it the first time, but it's not going to be easy. You've already affirmed that you are in the friends zone now, and there are tons of articles concerning this issue. I'm not exactly an older DJ but I've been around for a while. What you need to do is surround yourself with other women, and keep her off of your mind for a while. By doing this you will have fun while attracting her back again and maybe she'll come around for a second go. Just don't mess it up next time! By the way, I like the name. I'm into the JDM scene too.
 

JDMHonduh

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I think the only way she will come back to me for a second go would probably be pressure from her sister or when she is over the guy she is attracted to now. I think one of the main reasons she turned me down was just because I made it obvious at the wrong time while she was in love w/ another guy. Maybe once she gets over him she'll come back but for now I think I will still hang out w. her while having more girls to help me forget her. Do you suggest I ignore her for a while or just keep being friends?

Oh yeah I am into the JDM Honda scene I have a 1999 Acura Integra LS and a 2000 Acura Integra Type R w/ a JDM front end.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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