"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Friends, I have noticed women don't flat out smile at me but...

snowdog

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Pathgen said:
Im not that guy i said so in my post. However, i do have that semi-beard going on mostly because i have been too lazy in the morning to shave it off.

Both me and that guy in the picture are turkish. Its in our genes to grow hair fast. I can get that amount of hair on my face really fast.

I honestly prefer to be cleanshaven, but i dont want to shave every day. So would you please back the **** off and never make a comment like that again towards me?
Not shaving every day, that's okay. I just really can't stand those semi-feigs that have these artsy moustaches and beards. Like a thin line that runs from the sideburn into the chin. It's just... ghey.

Oh, and beards don't make you cooler by the way. Fascists and *******s like Fidel Castro, Osama Bin Laden and Che Guevara had them.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Not shaving every day, that's okay. I just really can't stand those semi-feigs that have these artsy moustaches and beards. Like a thin line that runs from the sideburn into the chin. It's just... ghey.
Totally agree on that. I really don't like those side-burn to chin beards especially. It gives off a feeling like they are trying to hard to stand out. However, if it works for them im ok with it i dont have to care how other men wear their beards im not attracted to them
 

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snowdog said:
Not shaving every day, that's okay. I just really can't stand those semi-feigs that have these artsy moustaches and beards. Like a thin line that runs from the sideburn into the chin. It's just... ghey.

Oh, and beards don't make you cooler by the way. Fascists and *******s like Fidel Castro, Osama Bin Laden and Che Guevara had them.
I think Fidel Castro, Osama Bin Laden and Che Guevara all look cooler with beards. The best example of this is Saddam Hussein, man that "trapped in a hole for 3 months" beard rocked.
 

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^^ That was Saddam? No wonder everyone I knew looked at me crazy when I had told them we found a dirty and disheveld Santa hiding in a spider hole in Iraq.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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