"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Friends, I have noticed women don't flat out smile at me but...

snowdog

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Pathgen said:
Im not that guy i said so in my post. However, i do have that semi-beard going on mostly because i have been too lazy in the morning to shave it off.

Both me and that guy in the picture are turkish. Its in our genes to grow hair fast. I can get that amount of hair on my face really fast.

I honestly prefer to be cleanshaven, but i dont want to shave every day. So would you please back the **** off and never make a comment like that again towards me?
Not shaving every day, that's okay. I just really can't stand those semi-feigs that have these artsy moustaches and beards. Like a thin line that runs from the sideburn into the chin. It's just... ghey.

Oh, and beards don't make you cooler by the way. Fascists and *******s like Fidel Castro, Osama Bin Laden and Che Guevara had them.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Pathgen

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Not shaving every day, that's okay. I just really can't stand those semi-feigs that have these artsy moustaches and beards. Like a thin line that runs from the sideburn into the chin. It's just... ghey.
Totally agree on that. I really don't like those side-burn to chin beards especially. It gives off a feeling like they are trying to hard to stand out. However, if it works for them im ok with it i dont have to care how other men wear their beards im not attracted to them
 

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snowdog said:
Not shaving every day, that's okay. I just really can't stand those semi-feigs that have these artsy moustaches and beards. Like a thin line that runs from the sideburn into the chin. It's just... ghey.

Oh, and beards don't make you cooler by the way. Fascists and *******s like Fidel Castro, Osama Bin Laden and Che Guevara had them.
I think Fidel Castro, Osama Bin Laden and Che Guevara all look cooler with beards. The best example of this is Saddam Hussein, man that "trapped in a hole for 3 months" beard rocked.
 

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^^ That was Saddam? No wonder everyone I knew looked at me crazy when I had told them we found a dirty and disheveld Santa hiding in a spider hole in Iraq.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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