"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Alright, here is another advice thread. My best friend has been trying to hook up with a girl for almost two months. He's too nervous to straight up ask her, but he does an ok job flirting.
I've told him just to be forward about it, and ask her for her number.
But instead, he pulled the Hershey's Kisses thing. (I hope you all know what that is. You know, 'Want a Kiss?' and then you hand them a Hershey's Kiss).

Long story short, now he's worried that she is going to go out with another guy, and he's asking me what he should do.

I'm thinking of what to tell him:
1. Do like I said and tell her how you feel.
2. Find a new girl.
3. Bust the other guy's face up.
4. Find out if she likes the new guy. If not, ask her out.


What do you DJ's think?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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dj's dont care about other guys so theres no need for him to be worrying about the other guy... just tell "him" not to get into the friend zone and make a move
 
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Originally posted by steroidsrule
dj's dont care about other guys
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Bull, DJs do care about other guys, why else would these forums have been created? But don't go asking others about her and his chances and all. Just point him out to this website, and tell him thebasic DJ tenets.
 
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Originally posted by steroidsrule
dj's dont care about other guys so theres no need for him to be worrying about the other guy... just tell "him" not to get into the friend zone and make a move
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Since when do you say what a dj is and isn't? Last time I checked, DJism is just a bunch of guidelines.... and I've never seen in the guidelines "don't care about other guys". Hell, isn't there a "Wingman" section of the DJ Bible? That's friends helping other guys.
 
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I care for the other DJ's on here. Just not like that.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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listen up you rejects you dont understand... why would a dj care about the other guy shes banging... duh... use your heads
 
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come on guys, tis obvious steroid wasn't say "don't give a **** about ur frined."
he was saying his friend shouldn't worry about the other dude n should game like normal, as if the other guy doesn't exist.
 
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Originally posted by Patrick124
come on guys, tis obvious steroid wasn't say "don't give a **** about ur frined."
he was saying his friend shouldn't worry about the other dude n should game like normal, as if the other guy doesn't exist.
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dj's dont care about other guys so theres no need for him to be worrying about the other guy... just tell "him" not to get into the friend zone and make a move


He never mentioned the guy asking the girl out. He mentioned the best friend.


But considering he thinks steriods rule, obviously he's a narcissist.
 
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Oh wow...

Tell your friend to get her number and set up a date TODAY.

IT'S BEEN TWO F*CKING MONTHS. JESUS CHRIST, it takes me 5 minutes to get a girl's number, how's it gonna take him two months? If she even gives it to him now, it'll be a miracle.

Hesitation killed him... she's probably with someone else... tell him to quit being a baby.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Get this: me and my gf and my friend were eating lunch. I hadn't given him any real advice yet, so I felt bad.

The girl he was trying to ask out just walked up, gave him a hug from behind, and started talking to him. They exchanged numbers too.
Turns out my gf had found out about my friend's problem and explained it to his crush.
The girl he liked had been feeling the same way, and was trying to play hard to get.

Can you believe that?
My gf says its the most natural thing. I'm still laughing. :crackup:
 
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