"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Alright, here is another advice thread. My best friend has been trying to hook up with a girl for almost two months. He's too nervous to straight up ask her, but he does an ok job flirting.
I've told him just to be forward about it, and ask her for her number.
But instead, he pulled the Hershey's Kisses thing. (I hope you all know what that is. You know, 'Want a Kiss?' and then you hand them a Hershey's Kiss).

Long story short, now he's worried that she is going to go out with another guy, and he's asking me what he should do.

I'm thinking of what to tell him:
1. Do like I said and tell her how you feel.
2. Find a new girl.
3. Bust the other guy's face up.
4. Find out if she likes the new guy. If not, ask her out.


What do you DJ's think?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dj's dont care about other guys so theres no need for him to be worrying about the other guy... just tell "him" not to get into the friend zone and make a move
 
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Originally posted by steroidsrule
dj's dont care about other guys
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Bull, DJs do care about other guys, why else would these forums have been created? But don't go asking others about her and his chances and all. Just point him out to this website, and tell him thebasic DJ tenets.
 
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Originally posted by steroidsrule
dj's dont care about other guys so theres no need for him to be worrying about the other guy... just tell "him" not to get into the friend zone and make a move
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Since when do you say what a dj is and isn't? Last time I checked, DJism is just a bunch of guidelines.... and I've never seen in the guidelines "don't care about other guys". Hell, isn't there a "Wingman" section of the DJ Bible? That's friends helping other guys.
 
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I care for the other DJ's on here. Just not like that.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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listen up you rejects you dont understand... why would a dj care about the other guy shes banging... duh... use your heads
 
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come on guys, tis obvious steroid wasn't say "don't give a **** about ur frined."
he was saying his friend shouldn't worry about the other dude n should game like normal, as if the other guy doesn't exist.
 
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Originally posted by Patrick124
come on guys, tis obvious steroid wasn't say "don't give a **** about ur frined."
he was saying his friend shouldn't worry about the other dude n should game like normal, as if the other guy doesn't exist.
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dj's dont care about other guys so theres no need for him to be worrying about the other guy... just tell "him" not to get into the friend zone and make a move


He never mentioned the guy asking the girl out. He mentioned the best friend.


But considering he thinks steriods rule, obviously he's a narcissist.
 
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Oh wow...

Tell your friend to get her number and set up a date TODAY.

IT'S BEEN TWO F*CKING MONTHS. JESUS CHRIST, it takes me 5 minutes to get a girl's number, how's it gonna take him two months? If she even gives it to him now, it'll be a miracle.

Hesitation killed him... she's probably with someone else... tell him to quit being a baby.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Get this: me and my gf and my friend were eating lunch. I hadn't given him any real advice yet, so I felt bad.

The girl he was trying to ask out just walked up, gave him a hug from behind, and started talking to him. They exchanged numbers too.
Turns out my gf had found out about my friend's problem and explained it to his crush.
The girl he liked had been feeling the same way, and was trying to play hard to get.

Can you believe that?
My gf says its the most natural thing. I'm still laughing. :crackup:
 
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