"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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MacAvoy

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I don't seem to have any scruples when it comes to acquintances girlfriends. I think it comes from my younger days and taking the mentality that I would be doing my friends a favour if I slept w/ their girl because it would prove she is a cheating hoe.

Now I have never slammed a close friend's girl, but I have definately gone down roads I shouldn't have, like a boss's women. My question is, how can I get myself to say keep my hands off. The other problem is I live in a small town, where promiscuity and infidelity are prominent.

Any suggestions?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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WaterTiger

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:eek:How about living a life with no friends and no job? :eek:

:confused: Man, what are you thinking? How many friends came to you and said: "Gee! Thanks for sleeping with my girlfriend MacAvoy! You saved me from a world of heartache."

Answer me this...Would you want a friend that was always trying to get with YOUR girlfriend?

I know we girls play this game, trying to steal our friend's men, or break them up. It's interesting to know you guys do this as well.
 

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Probably you are not meeting enough unattached women. This is probably from being in small town, but also, not making enough first moves.

The attached women are easier -- much easier -- to get to know b/c their sheild is down, and if you don't have other options, you'll go down that road. That's what I've seen in myself. But, I didn't go through with any of them, just kind of left them longing for me. Huge waste of time.

Bottom line: Get your hands on some unattached women and you won't get distracted with the rest. I mean, two hands, one ****, that's three women max. Go get 'em
 
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I say you are doing a community service by screwing your friend's hor - it serves your friend right for keeping company with stank hos!!
 

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All I want to know is what city you live in so I can assess all of this prominent sexual activity!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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