"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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MacAvoy

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I don't seem to have any scruples when it comes to acquintances girlfriends. I think it comes from my younger days and taking the mentality that I would be doing my friends a favour if I slept w/ their girl because it would prove she is a cheating hoe.

Now I have never slammed a close friend's girl, but I have definately gone down roads I shouldn't have, like a boss's women. My question is, how can I get myself to say keep my hands off. The other problem is I live in a small town, where promiscuity and infidelity are prominent.

Any suggestions?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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WaterTiger

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:eek:How about living a life with no friends and no job? :eek:

:confused: Man, what are you thinking? How many friends came to you and said: "Gee! Thanks for sleeping with my girlfriend MacAvoy! You saved me from a world of heartache."

Answer me this...Would you want a friend that was always trying to get with YOUR girlfriend?

I know we girls play this game, trying to steal our friend's men, or break them up. It's interesting to know you guys do this as well.
 

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Probably you are not meeting enough unattached women. This is probably from being in small town, but also, not making enough first moves.

The attached women are easier -- much easier -- to get to know b/c their sheild is down, and if you don't have other options, you'll go down that road. That's what I've seen in myself. But, I didn't go through with any of them, just kind of left them longing for me. Huge waste of time.

Bottom line: Get your hands on some unattached women and you won't get distracted with the rest. I mean, two hands, one ****, that's three women max. Go get 'em
 
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I say you are doing a community service by screwing your friend's hor - it serves your friend right for keeping company with stank hos!!
 

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All I want to know is what city you live in so I can assess all of this prominent sexual activity!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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