"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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MacAvoy

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I don't seem to have any scruples when it comes to acquintances girlfriends. I think it comes from my younger days and taking the mentality that I would be doing my friends a favour if I slept w/ their girl because it would prove she is a cheating hoe.

Now I have never slammed a close friend's girl, but I have definately gone down roads I shouldn't have, like a boss's women. My question is, how can I get myself to say keep my hands off. The other problem is I live in a small town, where promiscuity and infidelity are prominent.

Any suggestions?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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WaterTiger

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:eek:How about living a life with no friends and no job? :eek:

:confused: Man, what are you thinking? How many friends came to you and said: "Gee! Thanks for sleeping with my girlfriend MacAvoy! You saved me from a world of heartache."

Answer me this...Would you want a friend that was always trying to get with YOUR girlfriend?

I know we girls play this game, trying to steal our friend's men, or break them up. It's interesting to know you guys do this as well.
 

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Probably you are not meeting enough unattached women. This is probably from being in small town, but also, not making enough first moves.

The attached women are easier -- much easier -- to get to know b/c their sheild is down, and if you don't have other options, you'll go down that road. That's what I've seen in myself. But, I didn't go through with any of them, just kind of left them longing for me. Huge waste of time.

Bottom line: Get your hands on some unattached women and you won't get distracted with the rest. I mean, two hands, one ****, that's three women max. Go get 'em
 
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I say you are doing a community service by screwing your friend's hor - it serves your friend right for keeping company with stank hos!!
 

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All I want to know is what city you live in so I can assess all of this prominent sexual activity!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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