"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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MacAvoy

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I don't seem to have any scruples when it comes to acquintances girlfriends. I think it comes from my younger days and taking the mentality that I would be doing my friends a favour if I slept w/ their girl because it would prove she is a cheating hoe.

Now I have never slammed a close friend's girl, but I have definately gone down roads I shouldn't have, like a boss's women. My question is, how can I get myself to say keep my hands off. The other problem is I live in a small town, where promiscuity and infidelity are prominent.

Any suggestions?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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WaterTiger

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:eek:How about living a life with no friends and no job? :eek:

:confused: Man, what are you thinking? How many friends came to you and said: "Gee! Thanks for sleeping with my girlfriend MacAvoy! You saved me from a world of heartache."

Answer me this...Would you want a friend that was always trying to get with YOUR girlfriend?

I know we girls play this game, trying to steal our friend's men, or break them up. It's interesting to know you guys do this as well.
 

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Probably you are not meeting enough unattached women. This is probably from being in small town, but also, not making enough first moves.

The attached women are easier -- much easier -- to get to know b/c their sheild is down, and if you don't have other options, you'll go down that road. That's what I've seen in myself. But, I didn't go through with any of them, just kind of left them longing for me. Huge waste of time.

Bottom line: Get your hands on some unattached women and you won't get distracted with the rest. I mean, two hands, one ****, that's three women max. Go get 'em
 
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I say you are doing a community service by screwing your friend's hor - it serves your friend right for keeping company with stank hos!!
 

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All I want to know is what city you live in so I can assess all of this prominent sexual activity!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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