"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Friend's Ex-Girlfriend?

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One of my friend's has broken up with his girlfriend for a while now. At least three months. I'm starting to take an interest to her, she cute, smart and funny. I want to show my interest in her because one too many times I've played the "nice guy" card where girls would just like to be your friend and im done with that. Its time to follow the way of the DJ :whistle: .
I don't know if I should show interest in her because she used to go out with one of my friends. I didn't think that he would mind because hes stated numerous times that he was over her but during conversation with a few other buddies he stated that if he saw her date another guy he'd flip out and maybe even try to beat the other guy up. There are two things that I don't want to do, fight and fight a friend. Not exactly sure what I should do in this type of situation. Any help would be appreciated :up:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Well, asking him might be a start.
 
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Depends on whats more important to you the friend or the girl.

Going after a friend's leftovers is in poor taste and to me screams of a guy having no other options but to each their own.
 
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