"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Friend's Ex-Girlfriend?

Metalmofo

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One of my friend's has broken up with his girlfriend for a while now. At least three months. I'm starting to take an interest to her, she cute, smart and funny. I want to show my interest in her because one too many times I've played the "nice guy" card where girls would just like to be your friend and im done with that. Its time to follow the way of the DJ :whistle: .
I don't know if I should show interest in her because she used to go out with one of my friends. I didn't think that he would mind because hes stated numerous times that he was over her but during conversation with a few other buddies he stated that if he saw her date another guy he'd flip out and maybe even try to beat the other guy up. There are two things that I don't want to do, fight and fight a friend. Not exactly sure what I should do in this type of situation. Any help would be appreciated :up:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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WesCottII

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Well, asking him might be a start.
 

KontrollerX

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Depends on whats more important to you the friend or the girl.

Going after a friend's leftovers is in poor taste and to me screams of a guy having no other options but to each their own.
 
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