"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Friends drifting away

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Capt.Jack Sparrow

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Yeah.. my friends seem to be drifting away from me. My best friend is even drifting away. He think's hes mr.awesome now because hes changed into another style and hangs out with the people of the same style. We hardly hang out anymore man. And now he bearly even bothers to talk to me. Same with the rest of my friends. Their a bunch of punks man.

They don't even let me know if they are all gonna hang out somewhere or bother to invite me to chill with them or something. Now I only have a few (4) friends left and my girlfriend to hang out with.

For example everyone who was in our group went to another persons house to chill (which i found out about a few days later) and they don't even tell to me go. :mad:

Example #2

They all go to the movies without me. Man I've always invited them to the movies when I go. I even gave them rides. That's fukked.

I need new friends man. Sorry for the rant. :(
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Its really hard to find good and loyal friends in hs and not friends who would fuhk u over in a second...i mean people in highschool are all about being cool and the majority of them are ***** follower's who think their cool if they dress like the senior QB..but all in all their not..your only as popular as u think u are...go out and meet some new peeps..i had the same prob i hung out with this group since like 5th grade and then all the sudden we all fall apart and i was like well sh*t this sux..but then i started meeting new people (people who would stand by me in trouble and other ****) this my fellow dj is what u need..once u start hangin out with the right people u start meeting all their friends(who are good peeps to*usualy*) and u start to realize that u are popular and u start being more confident and then u find yourself...sry if i went off the subject i kinda got in the moment.
 
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Originally posted by Capt.Jack Sparrow

I need new friends man. Sorry for the rant. :(
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You damn right you do. And instead of bitching you should go and make some.
 
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Re: Re: Friends drifting away

Originally posted by Bunk 040
You damn right you do. And instead of bitching you should go and make some.
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Do you even listen to yourself?

JESUS YOU DUMB****. THE WORLD DOESN'T REVOLVE AROUND THE WORD "NEXT" . SOMETIMES PEOPLE CARE ABOUT OTHERS.
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Re: Re: Re: Friends drifting away

Originally posted by LikRetsam
Do you even listen to yourself?

JESUS YOU DUMB****. THE WORLD DOESN'T REVOLVE AROUND THE WORD "NEXT" . SOMETIMES PEOPLE CARE ABOUT OTHERS.
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Yeah, you got my number Mr. Alpha! When you're done I'll like to make you your Alpha dinner, I promise I won't forget the Alpha nutrition. Can I please iron your Alpha clothes for you too? You are my Alpha hero!


I swear this mothafucka just camps out on here waiting on my posts.... I doubt this faggot even talks to chicks.

Listen, I know this is your job but I wish we could meet somewhere and have you talk that **** you just said cause I hate talking **** on the internet.
 
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Re: Re: Re: Friends drifting away

Originally posted by LikRetsam
Do you even listen to yourself?

JESUS YOU DUMB****. THE WORLD DOESN'T REVOLVE AROUND THE WORD "NEXT" . SOMETIMES PEOPLE CARE ABOUT OTHERS.
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Originally posted by Bunk 040
You damn right you do. And instead of *****ing you should go and make some.
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I agree with Bunk... that's exactly what he should do...

LikRetsam... oh dear... time to cool the jets.
 
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Re: Re: Re: Re: Friends drifting away

Originally posted by Bunk 040
I swear this mothafucka just camps out on here waiting on my posts.... I doubt this faggot even talks to chicks.
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You're just right about everything. No point arguing your post, as you said, it's the internet.

Smooth... Jets need to burn their fuel after being over pumped.

Obviously he needs to make new friends but can you guys just seem to relatively care about the guy? And quit it with the bull**** sosuave "I'm above the world. NEXT NEXT NEXT" attitude.
 
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How about you both be quiet. And have an e-battle in private to see whos the best :rolleyes:
This is a place to give advice and ask questions, no need to make peoples beliefs into a huge e battle, ive seen enough of that **** on the internet.
 
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Re: Re: Re: Re: Friends drifting away

Originally posted by Bunk 040
Yeah, you got my number Mr. Alpha! When you're done I'll like to make you your Alpha dinner, I promise I won't forget the Alpha nutrition. Can I please iron your Alpha clothes for you too? You are my Alpha hero!


I swear this mothafucka just camps out on here waiting on my posts.... I doubt this faggot even talks to chicks.

Listen, I know this is your job but I wish we could meet somewhere and have you talk that **** you just said cause I hate talking **** on the internet.
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You really are an idiot...your ignorance says it all, mate.

Back to the issue at hand. Make new friends. It's incredibly easy and fun to break into "established" social circles and become good friends with everybody. The more contacts you have, the more you have to do every weekend.

Your friend sprobably don't have any personal problems with you, they're just insensitive idiots. Make new ones. You don't need people like that in your life.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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