"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Friends Birthday Meal And Drinks....

Aesthetix29

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Ok this Saturday night is when I'm going for a meal and drinks with a few friends etc... But some of you will already know if you've been reading my previous threads, that I was seeing a girl a few weeks ago and it all ended kind of weird texts just seem to become less frequent and it fizzled out... But my question is she's going to be at this meal... How should I act towards her ? As I still really like her. Should I ignore her.. Just say hi or let it be known that I don't appreciate being f***ed over ? It's going to be really awkward... Gonna go out this week by some fresh clothes etc.. So I look the part on the night. Oh and we was never exclusive just seeing each other... She could even have another fella! My last time I sent a text to her was a week today... With just general banter to which she never replied... So what's the best way to act on the night ? Thanks SS
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Kailex

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Act like a normal human being would, friendly.

Why would you try to make a scene at someone else's birthday meal and drinks extravaganza? Just let it be.

Like you said, you two weren't even exclusive.
It's only going to be awkward for YOU and you're the one making it awkward. I bet she'll be ABSOLUTELY fine while you'll be pining over her all night.

What part are you trying to look that night? Because trust me, she already has her mind made up about you.
 

Aesthetix29

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Yeh I understand that's what I meant just be normal...I don't want to make a scene there's no animosity between us atleast I don't think there is...trust me I'm not gonna be pining over her! As for looking the par time an just looking smart (dress wise) not for her benefit for my own as there'll be other girls there aswell!
 
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