Friends bailing out... Advice needed.

[kokane]

1. Hello guys. I have spent 6 months working on my inner game and its been yielding some good results. I refer to sarging as hunting. I took two of my friends with me, but all they did was stand 2m away and watched me getting rejected again again and again. No support given. When i an alone, rejection rates dwindle and i meet with amazing success. So i tried to ignore them, but now they keep hinting me to take them with me, but their negativity doesnt really help. My question: You think i would be better off alone or should i just train them to be good wingmen?
2. And then there are some other friends think that I shouldnt have changed 'just for girls' and that using terms like hunting are derogatory. I heard from other friends that they say they cant bring themselves to respect me any more(Major afc, supplicator, feminist kind- see what i have escaped from?). One thing I cant bear is someone not respecting me. And besides that this backbiting. I plan on getting rid of them. Your 2 cents awaited. Thanks.

 

[horaholic]

Some PU gurus say that when you immerse yourself in the community, you have to find a new circle of friends. I would go to RSDnation and ask this same question. You might get some better replies than here.

 

[kraytkiller]

You dont need a guy like that influencing your mindset...

 

[kokane]

I am nt influenced by them, its actually that they were gud frnds and i smetimes feel guilty that i am not sharing my knowledge/skill with them. Bt there is a lot of negativity when they are around.

 

[Julian]

Eagles fly solo. turkeys an chickens scratch around in the dirt together.

 

[K2000kidd]

Eagles fly solo. turkeys an chickens scratch around in the dirt together.

Best thing ive heard on this board yet

 

[blinkwatt101]

Dude if your friends are negative don't be around them end of story. Forget picking up chicks with them,don't be around them in general.

 

[Heman6]

i was in a similar position. this is what you should know...unless your friends are like minded dj's who actually get women you are better off doing it alone. i was very tight with a group of guys in my teens-early 20's. neither of us were were really good with girls which looking back i suspect was one of the reasons why we hung out lol. anyway they were whiners and lazy as **** and would not want to try. when i decided to put in the effort i wasn't successful at first and they would laugh at me and try to bring me down to their level. i'm no pro or anything but over the past few months i started having success and now they all look at me funny and say i'm not cool anymore. they can go **** themselves and i have already told them so, they aren't true friends and what i'm saying is you should ditch yours. they would rather see you miserable then happy, that's not a sign of a true friend. most guys are clueless and can't stand to see others succeed with women, esp. their friends. on the surface it may not seem that way but behind your back it's a good possibility.

 

[Warrior74]

I had friends like that...I just don't go out to meet women with them. When we hang out with just have drinks with the boys. They would joke every now and then about me being on the hunt, but it was just jokes...they would never put in the work, how could they be mad at someone who did. Ignore what your friends say, its just the jealousy talking...they will get over it eventually. Just hang with them when your not hunting and don't plan on it, go hunt solo or with other players you know. Different friends for different activities.

 

[kokane]

I assume they are just jealous and stuff. Gr8 advice warrior. Different friends for different activities. Gotta try that. Thanks everyone.