Friends are lifeless.... I WANT TO GO TO THAT PARTY!

[PlayCold]

Don't know if this really is the place for **** like this but I am getting tired of my friends... They are so damn lifeless! I finished school and I'm starting my own business (I'm a graphic designer) I work inside so I don't get out that much often. Every time I see there is a nice party coming soon and I'm all hyped up about going to it but none of my friends want to go because they "have to work" or "they don't like the music".

I score lots of girls when going out but if I can't get friends to go with me....


What would you guys do? Just go out on your own? Find some new friends? Just accept it?

 

[terran2k]

yeah why not go own your own and maybe you'll meet new friends.

 

[kingsam]

go on your own man, you must know other people there else you wouldnt be invited.... learn how to vibe with people you just met at the party etc, and you will be fine, be an awsome guy....and you may get invited out to other parties

aslo expand your social network, have other cool friends as well as your current dull freinds, one day you may find you are moving in a different direction to your current friends too.....

 

[PlayCold]

Thanks both!

It's just I wasn't sure about going to a party alone, I don't want to give people the wrong idea like I don't have any friends.

I'm already moving in a different direction then my friends, that's why I'm tired of them wasting my time and holding me back.



So just get to those party's and meet new people? Well I got a new thing to try out then!!

 

[Groovy]

It's just I wasn't sure about going to a party alone, I don't want to give people the wrong idea like I don't have any friends.

Screw that... I dunno what to tell you, just SCREW IT!!!

You're gonna like yourself even if others think badly about you... So it can't matter, right? Do you think it's wierd you're going yourself to a party? It can't be that wierd. The party may very well be fun and entertaining, I say just go too!!

 

[kingsam]

I'm already moving in a different direction then my friends, that's why I'm tired of them wasting my time and holding me back.



So just get to those party's and meet new people? Well I got a new thing to try out then!!

when doing self improvement, your friends who are happy staying "medicore" will have less and less in common with you...

BUT
dont totally get rid of them.... see them a bit for just beers and stuff....if they see you are having a awsome time / lots of women one or two may come "into the light"

 

[PlayCold]

Never thought about it that way.... I'm just going to do what I want to do and just leave them a bit on the "back burner". And maybe indeed someone "sees the light" and finally snaps out of the boring life they got.

Gentlemen, I have some party's to go to..