"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Friends are lifeless.... I WANT TO GO TO THAT PARTY!

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Don't know if this really is the place for **** like this but I am getting tired of my friends... They are so damn lifeless! I finished school and I'm starting my own business (I'm a graphic designer) I work inside so I don't get out that much often. Every time I see there is a nice party coming soon and I'm all hyped up about going to it but none of my friends want to go because they "have to work" or "they don't like the music".

I score lots of girls when going out but if I can't get friends to go with me....


What would you guys do? Just go out on your own? Find some new friends? Just accept it?:confused:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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yeah why not go own your own and maybe you'll meet new friends.
 
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go on your own man, you must know other people there else you wouldnt be invited.... learn how to vibe with people you just met at the party etc, and you will be fine, be an awsome guy....and you may get invited out to other parties

aslo expand your social network, have other cool friends as well as your current dull freinds, one day you may find you are moving in a different direction to your current friends too.....
 
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Thanks both!

It's just I wasn't sure about going to a party alone, I don't want to give people the wrong idea like I don't have any friends.

I'm already moving in a different direction then my friends, that's why I'm tired of them wasting my time and holding me back.



So just get to those party's and meet new people? Well I got a new thing to try out then!!
 
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PlayCold said:
It's just I wasn't sure about going to a party alone, I don't want to give people the wrong idea like I don't have any friends.
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Screw that... I dunno what to tell you, just SCREW IT!!!

You're gonna like yourself even if others think badly about you... So it can't matter, right? Do you think it's wierd you're going yourself to a party? It can't be that wierd. The party may very well be fun and entertaining, I say just go too!!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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PlayCold said:
I'm already moving in a different direction then my friends, that's why I'm tired of them wasting my time and holding me back.



So just get to those party's and meet new people? Well I got a new thing to try out then!!
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when doing self improvement, your friends who are happy staying "medicore" will have less and less in common with you...

BUT
dont totally get rid of them.... see them a bit for just beers and stuff....if they see you are having a awsome time / lots of women one or two may come "into the light"
 
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Never thought about it that way.... I'm just going to do what I want to do and just leave them a bit on the "back burner". And maybe indeed someone "sees the light" and finally snaps out of the boring life they got.

Gentlemen, I have some party's to go to.. :D
 
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