"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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Friendly salesperson or more?

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Well went today to Banana Republic to get a dress shirt not expecting anything... So i pick up my shirt and go to changing room. The girl says " Are you ready sweety"? Im like yea so i go change my stuff, and come out to go pay..

Then i realized i also needed a white t shirt so i pick up one and go up to her in the changing room... And i was like do you guys have this in size Large? So we stand there looking at each other for couple of sec's me checking her out (smiling), and she replies.. No we ran out.. So i was like can you pull some magic tricks and check in the back to see if you can find anything.. She laughed and was like no really we dont have anything because we didnt receive the shipment this week. So i was like allright thanks.

I go up to counter and wait in line for minute or two to pay.. Then i see her coming back from the back/changing room comes up to me and says. "Well you know you can come back and check tommorow, maybe we will have something" And i was like nah i dont have time.. So we are smiling and i was like well thanks anyways, and i payed and left.

Now if i was thinking faster.. When she said you can come back tommorow? I could of said something like "Are you gonna be hear? (and smile)? Or could of said something "hmm i dont know give me your # and i might consider coming back".. But since im so slow with ladies i didnt do that

Question, do you guys see any attraction, or just a friendly girl? Should i consider stopping by the store in couple of weeks?
 

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Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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If you don't hit on her you are a ***** with no balls.
 
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Ok i guess both of you did not read the post i did hit on her i just didnt ask her for her # cuzz i assumed she was a friendly salesperson.... Unless you guys mean that have no balls next time if i see her and not ask her #:confused:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yankees,

Since you are not quick on your feet, you must have a list of openers and closers before you approach - they should cover different situations.

Since you are going shopping again sometime in your life, why not have some planned convos already set up?

You gave the perfect example when you said, "Are you gonna be hear? (and smile)? Or could of said something "hmm i dont know give me your # and i might consider coming back".. , "

Next time this same situation comes up, say the above comments.

Write down some openers/close on a piece of paper and memorize them for the most common situations that arise on a daily basis.

Colllege campus

Shopping at the mall

Libraries

Bus stops

Random walk-bys

Clubs

etc...

Not all things said can be pre-planned and calculated, but if you had some convos already memorized you'll be more comfortable approaching and mingling.


When she said or when the next saleswoman says, 'Hey sweetie", always respond back with, "yes honey" and play off of this with a little humor. Then say, "Are you being nice (affectionate) to me because it's part of your job or is it bacuse you like me" (then smile). If she says "I like you". then say, "Great why don't you give me your number and we can discuss this away from your work".

If she says "It's part of my job to be friendly." then say "It's part of my job as a man, to ask you for your number" (smile)


Now have another opener for the college campus.

If you are in the biology building you can say, "Are you a biology major?" She says "Yeah". You say, "Biology has to do with the study of life, right" She says, "Yeah" You say, "I would like to study your life, how about giving me your number?"

Some cheesy stuff like that...:)
 
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Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Yankees,


"Are you being nice (affectionate) to me because it's part of your job or is it bacuse you like me" (then smile). If she says "I like you". then say, "Great why don't you give me your number and we can discuss this away from your work".

If she says "It's part of my job to be friendly." then say "It's part of my job as a man, to ask you for your number" (smile)
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that's cool Puerto! I have to remeber this! :D

to yankees13:
1,not asking her (2,3) was bad.
2,"Are you gonna be hear? (and smile)?" better than 1.
3,"hmm i dont know give me your # and i might consider coming back" THE best :D
 
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