"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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supCALI

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Yo,

Don Juan wise, is it good to make friend contacts with girls to meet their friends?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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supCALI said:
Yo,

Don Juan wise, is it good to make friend contacts with girls to meet their friends?
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The short answer is hell yes. It's always a good idea to expand your network of girls.
 
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Always, its the same principal as you will never get hit on by girls more than when you have a girlfriend.
 
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If you are friends with a girl and have proven that your not a horndog and try to get in her pants, she will tell all her single friends that she has this great guy that they should meet. Women love to be match maker for their friends, so if your the catch, you'll have plenty of bait to eat up.
 
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If you're looking for a wife then sure. There is no quicker way to the altar than dating a FOAF (friend of a friend), except for maybe dating a FOTF (friend of the family). When you combine your social circle with your dating circle, it tends to rope you into one long term monogamous committed relationship. Because if you ditch the girl or she ditches you, you have to give up many of your mutual friends as well, some of whom will choose her, some of whom will choose you.

I have a couple of female friends who are very cool and funny and whom I have no attraction for but like to grab a beer with on occasion. I always tell them not to insult me by trying to set me up with anyone. I do not mix dating and social circles because I like to be free to dump chicks I'm seeing without it affecting my friends.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Yes but make sure that you get something out of it and not wasting your time. Also remember that if your little friend has any romantic interest in you, she will c@#*block the heck out of you when you're near her friends.
 
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L B said:
Also remember that if your little friend has any romantic interest in you, she will c@#*block the heck out of you when you're near her friends.
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yes thats so true
 
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