Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Friending girls you don't have romantic interest in

supCALI

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Yo,

Don Juan wise, is it good to make friend contacts with girls to meet their friends?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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supCALI said:
Yo,

Don Juan wise, is it good to make friend contacts with girls to meet their friends?
The short answer is hell yes. It's always a good idea to expand your network of girls.
 

Klaus

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Always, its the same principal as you will never get hit on by girls more than when you have a girlfriend.
 

teddy240

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If you are friends with a girl and have proven that your not a horndog and try to get in her pants, she will tell all her single friends that she has this great guy that they should meet. Women love to be match maker for their friends, so if your the catch, you'll have plenty of bait to eat up.
 

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If you're looking for a wife then sure. There is no quicker way to the altar than dating a FOAF (friend of a friend), except for maybe dating a FOTF (friend of the family). When you combine your social circle with your dating circle, it tends to rope you into one long term monogamous committed relationship. Because if you ditch the girl or she ditches you, you have to give up many of your mutual friends as well, some of whom will choose her, some of whom will choose you.

I have a couple of female friends who are very cool and funny and whom I have no attraction for but like to grab a beer with on occasion. I always tell them not to insult me by trying to set me up with anyone. I do not mix dating and social circles because I like to be free to dump chicks I'm seeing without it affecting my friends.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Yes but make sure that you get something out of it and not wasting your time. Also remember that if your little friend has any romantic interest in you, she will c@#*block the heck out of you when you're near her friends.
 

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L B said:
Also remember that if your little friend has any romantic interest in you, she will c@#*block the heck out of you when you're near her friends.
yes thats so true
 
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