"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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A month ago I met this girl and asked her to the movies. She accepted my offer and we went and had fun. We see each other at school everyday.

Well one day, all of a sudden she tells me her grandmother doesn't want her to have a boyfriend, until she is out of college. At first I thought she was kidding, because we have made out and other stuff.

About a week ago I dropped her off at her house, and her grandmother came outside. She gave me an extremely mean look and walked back in the house.

I told this girl that what her grandmother wants is unreal, but she tells me she would never disobey her grandmother. The real problem is whenever I talk to another girl she gets really mad.

What would you guys do in this situation?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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well the girl has to understand that you wont be waiting around until after college... I would just try onemore time and maybe talk to the grandmotehr and make her like you... if that doesnt work just move on.
 
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Tell the girl, its now or never. Your not going to wait for her.
 
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Thanx for the advice. I'll try to get in good with the grandmother first, but if it doesn't work i'm moving on.
 
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