"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Real_C0

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A month ago I met this girl and asked her to the movies. She accepted my offer and we went and had fun. We see each other at school everyday.

Well one day, all of a sudden she tells me her grandmother doesn't want her to have a boyfriend, until she is out of college. At first I thought she was kidding, because we have made out and other stuff.

About a week ago I dropped her off at her house, and her grandmother came outside. She gave me an extremely mean look and walked back in the house.

I told this girl that what her grandmother wants is unreal, but she tells me she would never disobey her grandmother. The real problem is whenever I talk to another girl she gets really mad.

What would you guys do in this situation?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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DJ_SUPREME

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well the girl has to understand that you wont be waiting around until after college... I would just try onemore time and maybe talk to the grandmotehr and make her like you... if that doesnt work just move on.
 

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Tell the girl, its now or never. Your not going to wait for her.
 

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Thanx for the advice. I'll try to get in good with the grandmother first, but if it doesn't work i'm moving on.
 
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