Hey guys,
There's this girl I've known for a while and in the past (few years ago) I did everything short of sex with her a couple of times. I got a gf shortly after but would still see this girl around at parties. I didn't really know how to play it so I would show up to a lot of events and all that and dance next to her or joke around or whatever but I kept it very G-rated cause I wasn't single. She left town about a year ago and travelled a bit but always sends me a text reminding me what her new number is, and when she does come back for visits I'm one of the people she always gets in touch with to hang out. Anyway I guess I've always had a thing for her and now my gf and I are gonna split up pretty soon, I'm wondering how you guys think I should play it if she visits again. She might just be keeping in touch and hanging out with me in large groups because she's being nice and sees me as a friend, or maybe it's cause she wants to see me but knows I'm taken. It'd be cool to find out if I'm friendzoned or if she keeps me around cause she's waiting for an opportunity, but it'll be hard to figure that out if she only comes to town very briefly and wants to see everyone at once. Thoughts?
There's this girl I've known for a while and in the past (few years ago) I did everything short of sex with her a couple of times. I got a gf shortly after but would still see this girl around at parties. I didn't really know how to play it so I would show up to a lot of events and all that and dance next to her or joke around or whatever but I kept it very G-rated cause I wasn't single. She left town about a year ago and travelled a bit but always sends me a text reminding me what her new number is, and when she does come back for visits I'm one of the people she always gets in touch with to hang out. Anyway I guess I've always had a thing for her and now my gf and I are gonna split up pretty soon, I'm wondering how you guys think I should play it if she visits again. She might just be keeping in touch and hanging out with me in large groups because she's being nice and sees me as a friend, or maybe it's cause she wants to see me but knows I'm taken. It'd be cool to find out if I'm friendzoned or if she keeps me around cause she's waiting for an opportunity, but it'll be hard to figure that out if she only comes to town very briefly and wants to see everyone at once. Thoughts?