Friend Zone hero

[MegaJim]

Here is how thing normally go for me: I meet a girl and we have a conversation. It seems that things are going well. I get her to laugh. I ask about herself, all that jazz. But, in the end, I always get the "good guy/ friend" speach.

I've been thinking and have some ideas:

1) I am 'to available' and just come off as being desperate instead of being nice.
2) I just take too long?
3)I'm not the most handsome guy. So, I am trying to use my wit and goofiness to my adavatage. Maybe this is the wrong way of looking at things?

Any tips would be great! Thanks!

 

[Igetit!]

Here is how thing normally go for me: I meet a girl and we have a conversation. It seems that things are going well. I get her to laugh. I ask about herself, all that jazz. But, in the end, I always get the "good guy/ friend" speach.

Well in all that conversation and getting her to laugh......

Did you flirt?
Did you tease?
Did you compliment her appearance?

And MOST IMPORTANTLY......did you ASK HER OUT?


It's A.C.S....Attraction,Comfort,Seduction. You got the comfort,but where the sexual spark at?


Dude,the friendzone IS EASY to avoid. Just ask a girl out in the first moments of meeting her,that's it.


It's just that simple.

 

[switch]

as an expert in friendszone i must say that you are slow, igetit! is correct

don't talk to her, get her number and then vanish
the more you talk before getting a date,the further you risk of getting into this "mess"
friendszone=== was too slow

 

[thevilittletroll]

i used to be in the same situation. it took me a while to get out of it. but after 6 years of learning game its all a thing of the past. i've written a couple of articles that should help you out a lot. let me know what you think.


http://sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=186136

http://sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=185913

http://sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=185700

http://sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=198758

 

[MegaJim]

Thanks for all of the help! I have read your articles (they really helped) and have adjusted accordingly. I just have one question, i'm not nessicarly looking just for sex. I am looking for a long lasting relationship and don;t want to come off as a horn dog. But, I can still use these same techniques, right?

 

[Sofomore]

Welcome to the Forum MegaJim. Here are a few posts I found when using the search tool at the top of the page.

http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/Forum6/HTML/000345.html

http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/Forum6/HTML/000552.html

 

[thevilittletroll]

you are always in control of what type of relationship you want to have. if the girl you pickup does not meet your criteria you have the choice to cut her off. remember you are the chooser, not her. and yes these techniques will work for what you are looking for.