"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

"Friend-zone" doesn't exist

M

mpimpin

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 26, 2006
Messages
1,746
Reaction score
14
Location
Bama
Last edited:

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

V

vitor

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jun 16, 2007
Messages
338
Reaction score
3
Location
Baltimore
Its a good post, and partially true. One of your friends girlfriends can be a friend since you would bang her if you could but she is your boys girl and thats wrong. I think like the post said a girl decides if your dating material, ****ing material, or nothing. If your nothing you could be someone she uses, free meals, drive her places, fix her sink, your always there for her but she is never there for you.

I ask you this if I want to talk to someone about a good business idea, or have a great logical conversation I dont go and talk to girls.
 
M

mpimpin

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 26, 2006
Messages
1,746
Reaction score
14
Location
Bama
excellent point
 
T

typical

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 14, 2005
Messages
1,253
Reaction score
267
Location
Auckland, New Zealand
vitor said:
Its a good post, and partially true. One of your friends girlfriends can be a friend since you would bang her if you could but she is your boys girl and thats wrong. I think like the post said a girl decides if your dating material, ****ing material, or nothing. If your nothing you could be someone she uses, free meals, drive her places, fix her sink, your always there for her but she is never there for you.

I ask you this if I want to talk to someone about a good business idea, or have a great logical conversation I dont go and talk to girls.
Click to expand...
Ahh so true my friend so true.
 
C

christz

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 26, 2004
Messages
740
Reaction score
0
i just had one of my friends buy me cigs and a drink on some guy she's talking to credit card. (she's got a FB relationship in which she gets gifts, money etc..) haha

i dunno what a true LJBF relationship is like but i have an idea.. and i don't think i'd stick myself in a situation like that. Because any friend i've had that were female most of the time either we've already had a relationship or we've banged previously before OR we were "talking"

but when it comes to females i like being on the other side of the fence watching how a girl works while at the same time staying sexual and flirty
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top