"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I'm not really looking for an answer in this post, more or less of "I can relate stories" and what you did in them.

Anywho, I had a pal who I talked to, went to sporting events with, etc. and he happens to be quite skilled at Hockey (got selected for all-star teams, has heavy attention from colleges, etc).

This season was perhaps his shining moment or due to the fact our team sucks he really stood out, and over the course of the season he started to change. He seemed to let all the attention he was getting go to head, he is very confident now, but sometimes I just see it as plain arrogance.

So much so, all he ever speaks about is hockey, how good he is at hockey, etc. just utterly annoying. Whenever I try converse with him too it feels like he's always putting down what I say with a sarcastic "Ooook" or taking my sarcastic jokes and correcting them (for instance if someone said "snowballs chance in hell" he'd probably reply "there are no snowballs in hell")

I don't wish to just leave him behind, because in the end before this happened he was a very cool guy but hot damn is he getting a big head. It almost feels like the situation where you have a friend who wins the lottery and he changes on you.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Laugh at him. Just keep laughing till he gives you this WTF look. That should do it.
 
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