big_jeffry
Don Juan
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How do you get a friend with benefits, aka "f*** friend" cause I think i'm in need...?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Friend with benefits?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I had a fvck friend but didn't know it. It was my ex gf - me thinking we were getting back together but she was just fvcking me 
This was ok until I found out she was fvcking her plumber too! :cuss:
I guess his pipe is cleansing her drain better.
You might have one and not know it!
This was ok until I found out she was fvcking her plumber too! :cuss: I guess his pipe is cleansing her drain better.
You might have one and not know it!
playboy_supreme
Don Juan
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the girl has to transition it. but your words will influencer her into doing so. she has to believe that nor she or you want a relationship but you enjoy spending time together and f**king. if one of you wants more the whole thing will collapse and will probably turn against you. do a search for FB rules for more information.