“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Friend with benefits, but should I make her my gf?

Maeisgood

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I have had this friend with benefits for 4 months or so, but its getting increasingly awkward. We are sort of like a couple, but I think she seems more sure about me than I am about her which seems like the way it usually goes with me, but I don't see any other girl I'm currently into. I do think that one day I do want another official girlfriend, but I'm not 100% about her. I feel like I could possibly meet a girl I like better, but if I ask this one to be my gf and I find another one I feel more alike, what should I do?

In short, I often feel attracted to a girl, but never feel she is enough like me for a relationship to work.

Being an AFC sucks, but being a 100 year-old "DJ" by not ever having truly loved is worse and more pathetic, so please don't simply answer with, "Don't get too attached" or something like that. This is a situation I'm commonly in, but have never been sure how to deal with.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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jdjd

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how about we start this off by age? i always look at that first..
 

trickz

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Making her your girlfriend isn't going to make a difference just make things more complicated if you decide to leave her.
If you're worried that she might find another guy whos more in to her than you than i guess you should go for it but otherwise id stay clear of making anything official.
 
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