"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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friend with benefit decides "no more sex"

scorpio1138

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Tiguere said:
update:

i decided to not listen to what she said and pay attention to what she does.

i know i originally said i would go nc on her but then i did some thinking and called her up and made small talk (basically letting her know that i was indifferent to her friendzoning me .
well she came to my house after her gym session (her gym is 2 blocks from my house)
we ordered chinese food. she had these spandex leggings . so i kinda let loose my hand and slapped her ass and she smiled.

she had her hands wet from washing it after dinner and asked me for a towel and i went to my room to get it and called her to come in for her towel.

after she got in i playfully locked the door behind her and picked her up and threw her in my bed.

i got on touch of her and started kissing her. she was refusing to go french at first but that soon changed.

i basically kissed her and grabbed her ass. fooled around a bit i didnt want to push for sex since she was already bugging me that she wanted to be home early so she can fix the mess in her room.

this is a girl that told me she was going to stop being sexual with me and went cold .

small update but it wont be long until i am smashing that a$$ once again.


tomorrow i will be fvcking my single mom plate(who has a boyfriend)

Good for you man!

If she had come over and had some wine or drinks, you would surely have done the deed. (thats what happened with my situation the first time she changed her mind about not giving it to me)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Tiguere

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and the juice just keeps on cumming. we talked on the phone and she admitted why she stopped the sex.

she confessed snooping through my phone one time while i was showering and saw flirty text messages to other girls.

and she felt like she was just one more girl in my life and didnt see any future or anything stable with me.

we met though her sister. i met her the day she dumped her ex.

met her feb2010
spent 2 months talking
had sex for first time in april
end of august she decides no more sex.

(oh yea and she was just diagnosed with cervical dysplasia)
 
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