"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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hmm news update about friend to girlfriend...

the other day, me and her went out, had a real fun time, alot of kino, alot of everything, my intrest level was high and it seemed to be hers was as well .. i go home and everything is fine

the next day, she calls me that night, and wants to hang out with some friends of ours, so we go out to eat and stuff, but she doesnt sit anywhere near me and like gives me the cold shoulder the whole night... WHY!?

so i go home bumbed and hopeless here again... hmm wtf should i do any advice??��
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Honestly man, I dont like to be the bearer of bad news. But this girl DOES NOT LIKE YOU. Kiss her and find out for yourself so you can put yourself out of this mysery. I feel for u man. But she invites you out with other friends first of all, if a girl liked you, and wanted more she would want to just go out with you. She was not cold, you are just imagining it because she didnt speak to you so much since other people were there. Man I feel sorry for you, you are only her friend, so I would see if she kisses back, but you have to be a man. Do you like this mysery? Because only you can stop it!!!!
 
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dude...seriously..the same thing happened to me too.

Well..i started to date this girl...we hung out alot but never as buddy buddy stuff. on like the 3rd date on a friday..things were hot...next day saw her at a party...she ignored me the whole night. i knew i shouldnt have gone to the party but i wanted to have fun...

Story aside...dont talk to her for awhile...at least a week...keep doing your thing and but dont talk to her. its time you play hard to get and build some mystery.....come back in a week and report in.
 
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Originally posted by unknowntim3
hmm news update about friend to girlfriend...

the next day, she calls me that night, and wants to hang out with some friends of ours,... so i go home bumbed and hopeless here again... hmm wtf should i do any advice??��
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Your clue that you were only her friend is when she asked you to 'hang out' with a 'group of friends' --- right there I would have said, "no thanks". Why do you guys always put the ball in the woman's court (let her make the final decision) - I know why, "because you desperately want to get into her panties!!!"
 
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