Friend pisses me off with women

[mahon83050]

I have a friend who is a year younger (about the same in the looks dept as me, maybe a little better), has alot more experience with girls and meets alot more girls than me.

So, why am I pissed?

How come everytime I talk to him, he has to mention the fact that he hooked up or met some chick? If I meet a chick, I usually keep it to myself....your friends don't want to hear about you hooking up...etc...it just leads to jealousy in my opinion.

 

[flexion_]

People that hook up with a lot of women don't talk about it. Most likely he is full of it. I'm not sure why it bothers you - unless you are jealous for some reason?

 

[mahon83050]

People that hook up with a lot of women don't talk about it. Most likely he is full of it. I'm not sure why it bothers you - unless you are jealous for some reason?

Yea, I am jealous to some degree. He goes out and gets tanked, and most likely the girl is tanked.

 

[realsmoothie]

People that hook up with a lot of women don't talk about it.

Agreed on this... and I'm learning it quickly. A year ago if I even sniffed a girl I'd tell everyone around. Now I've noticed that I actually feel like I'm doing myself a disservice by telling anyone about my late-night activities.

That kind of stuff sounds better when other people bring it up. I'll always get to work and the girls will be like "so what happened to YOU last night" with big smiles on their face. You just smirk and shrug.

 

[mahon83050]

Agreed on this... and I'm learning it quickly. A year ago if I even sniffed a girl I'd tell everyone around. Now I've noticed that I actually feel like I'm doing myself a disservice by telling anyone about my late-night activities.

That kind of stuff sounds better when other people bring it up. I'll always get to work and the girls will be like "so what happened to YOU last night" with big smiles on their face. You just smirk and shrug.

I don't think he makes it up...he is not that type of guy and I know he gets chicks. I just don't understand why he has to talk about it (he does not go into details at all) but he makes you know he got some a$$.

 

[Hitman10000]

I recommend that you drop your envious attitude of him and watch/learn from him. It's better to learn from a pro right in front of your eyes than taking advice from the internet.

 

[mahon83050]

I recommend that you drop your envious attitude of him and watch/learn from him. It's better to learn from a pro right in front of your eyes than taking advice from the internet.

He's no pro. Even though he says these women are cute/hot...I do not know what they look like and most of the time he is ****faced and so are the women.....ever hear of liquid confidence?

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

You're jealous and he's bragging. Both of you need to realize that both are an extreme and that there's a less pervasive way for both of you to get what you want.

 

[mahon83050]

You're jealous and he's bragging. Both of you need to realize that both are an extreme and that there's a less pervasive way for both of you to get what you want.

He doesn't really say it in a bragging manner, but why brag? Just like jealously, bragging is an insecurity.

It annoys me because he gets alot of women (so he says) and knows I don't get that much. When I score, I don't really feel the need to tell him.

 

[Eccentric]

My friends brag about how much ass they get. Then I realize they just recycle each others ex girlfriends which I find pathetic. Sure I don't have a girl around my arm now, and I'm not jealous. I just let one go and feel free again. Where they are stuck on the merry go round. They keep spinning in circles with no direction, but because they change horses, it's a new "experience."