"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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friend or not?

chance_

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it was saturday early afternoon. me and my pal was walking back to his place and he whistled at this young girl and she looked back. we waved. so did she... she grabbed her bike (we kept walking further away) and rode off a few meters... then suddenly turned back and followed us!? so we stopped at this park (other end of where she was) - she actually got off her bike. sat down in our direction and waited for us. we went to her and we sat next to her and talked to her for about 10 minutes.

i grabbed her number and went to my friends house. i txt her saying this is my number, talk later. then she called using her friends phone... talked 5 minutes and then i told her id talk to her later. she txt me again about 9pm then again 11pm so i decided to txt back and we ended up txting all night/morning. i think that wasn't a good idea but it was alright, go to know each other a bit. she doesn't sound all too happy cause she and her boyfriend broke up. giving me those one word answers like "yes" or "i dunno" sometimes but sometimes she sounds happy. anyway today i called her and was askin what she was doing later tonight..
she's going out with family (strict family) and she wanted me to see her at her house but i said that wasnt a good idea as im a bit older than her. dont want her parents seeing me there. theres this one thing she said on the phone that got me. i said: "what is your new years resolution?" she said; "to find a nice guy" now does that automatically put me in the friend zone or no? i just want a fuk out of this for now. she's too young for LTR. any ideas?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Dee-Zy

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Hard to tell, how old are you and how old is she? You make it sound like you are 30 and she's 16, but by the things you are doing, it sounds like you are 16 and she's 14.
 

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i wish i was 16. i am 22 she is 17. her damn parents are so strict. she called me up today telling me they took her cell off her and she's only allowed to use it for an hour each day, lol. until the end of this month, she gets it back. it's cause she uses the phone alot or something :S - gonna be hard to lay this girl. i might catch up with her after she finishes work cause she gets a few hours after work before going home. take her to see a movie and i'll plant a few moves in the back seats :p
 

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im not into layin chix that are 5 years younger then me if they are in thier teens.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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rrrrr

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she's jailbait yo, but it sounds like she wants you... to say "i want to find a nice guy" is telling you what type of guy she's looking for.
 
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