"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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friend or not?

chance_

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it was saturday early afternoon. me and my pal was walking back to his place and he whistled at this young girl and she looked back. we waved. so did she... she grabbed her bike (we kept walking further away) and rode off a few meters... then suddenly turned back and followed us!? so we stopped at this park (other end of where she was) - she actually got off her bike. sat down in our direction and waited for us. we went to her and we sat next to her and talked to her for about 10 minutes.

i grabbed her number and went to my friends house. i txt her saying this is my number, talk later. then she called using her friends phone... talked 5 minutes and then i told her id talk to her later. she txt me again about 9pm then again 11pm so i decided to txt back and we ended up txting all night/morning. i think that wasn't a good idea but it was alright, go to know each other a bit. she doesn't sound all too happy cause she and her boyfriend broke up. giving me those one word answers like "yes" or "i dunno" sometimes but sometimes she sounds happy. anyway today i called her and was askin what she was doing later tonight..
she's going out with family (strict family) and she wanted me to see her at her house but i said that wasnt a good idea as im a bit older than her. dont want her parents seeing me there. theres this one thing she said on the phone that got me. i said: "what is your new years resolution?" she said; "to find a nice guy" now does that automatically put me in the friend zone or no? i just want a fuk out of this for now. she's too young for LTR. any ideas?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Dee-Zy

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Hard to tell, how old are you and how old is she? You make it sound like you are 30 and she's 16, but by the things you are doing, it sounds like you are 16 and she's 14.
 

chance_

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i wish i was 16. i am 22 she is 17. her damn parents are so strict. she called me up today telling me they took her cell off her and she's only allowed to use it for an hour each day, lol. until the end of this month, she gets it back. it's cause she uses the phone alot or something :S - gonna be hard to lay this girl. i might catch up with her after she finishes work cause she gets a few hours after work before going home. take her to see a movie and i'll plant a few moves in the back seats :p
 

pornstar88

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im not into layin chix that are 5 years younger then me if they are in thier teens.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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rrrrr

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she's jailbait yo, but it sounds like she wants you... to say "i want to find a nice guy" is telling you what type of guy she's looking for.
 
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