"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Friend of mine's in trouble

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Well, not really friend. She's my mom's friend. Called me today basically asking me to borrow my car.


4.6L stang, 25k miles, 5 speed.


I lied to her I don't have insurance, and I told her that because I don't have license police will pull her over. Obviously she could have driven it, but I don't want my car driven.

Her situation is such that she told me she just fixed her suspended driver license this morning. Hey, could be true. But, I don't want my car dinged, dented, driven, marbles and sh1t. This car is for me to enjoy, I pay for it, and it's not to be used to provide some mercy for someone because they dont' have money.



Her situation. This is the good stuff. She was with this guy, player, different b1tch every night. They had a falling out or something, she's old, the guy is getting rid of her. So, I guess she was sucking off his wallet, and he stopped it. Took her car in the middle of the night, left her in financial ruins, needing to go to therapy. Fvck I don't know what happened there, but gentelmen don't do that.


Right, it's the same fvcker that screwed me out of $60.. Same fvcker I worked for and he fvcked me. I thought he was something to respect and trust, and maybe learn game from, but he was just sh1t. Some car dealer b1tch around here, with imaginary friends on swat team.


I'm not gassiping here, I could give less sh1t. I just got this call, I told her no. No hard feelings. I'd let her use my connections to get a used car, but apperantely she don't have money for that, in therapy, lol..


My question:

I can fvck the guy up bad, suspend his eBay account. He won't recover from this one, no way to sell cars on eBay. Should I hit that beyotch???

OF all the people, he deserves it.


I wanted to do it back when he screwed me. But I decided against that, I just moved on. But here is an opportunity to get some justice, and get some good carma flowing for me.


Should I go boom on that mother fvcker? No body will ever know, even if they do, it's nothing to sweat.. Hahaha, I don't have imaginary friends on swat team, but I do have real friends in all the right places.

Should I? Should I? Push the button? Fvck the mother fvcker? Make him cry?


Let me know...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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An observation/question: If you really wanted to do it, would you have asked the forum?
 

djSlvt

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So why did I ask?



Couldn't/didn't want to help her, gotta make up in some other way?


I called my other friend and his old toyota will be available in about a month, he has his own rat driving it, lol.


Perhaps the healthy thing to do is not to do anything? This is a bit confusing.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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spesmilitis

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He stole her car???

If there was absolutly no way to tell that you did it, then go for it. But, provide more detail:

How did he leave her in financial ruins? Did he cheat her something. Did he steal her car? How did he steal 60$ from you? What else has he done bad?
 
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