"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Friend in trouble at the office. Need some advice.

SharinganUser

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Ok, My friend Office Jim was in the cafe last friday because it was Kosher Friday, and believe me the food is awesome. They were offering different drinks and such with every meal. My buddy Office Jim had a to do a presentation later that after noon so he had a little to much of his pre-game scotch and was slurring his words a little bit.

When he got to the front of the line and the cashier asked if he'd like Apple or Orange Juice, he slurred "No I don't like the juice." Some of our coworkers filed a complaint about it, now he might get canned.

I didn't tell anyone what he actually said, because one time he told me how much he hates the Mexicans.

How should I let my boss know that I want his job?
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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SharinganUser said:
How should I let my boss know that I want his job?
You call this guy a friend... he might get fired and you're worried about taking his job...

Wouldn't wish a friend like you on anyone.

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