Okay fellas, I'm currently a teacher for my buddy Jason, my soon to be wingman if he can get his act together!
J's been having his eyes on this cute asian girl, but he can never bring himself to APPROACH her because he gives me these excuses:
1) It'll be AWKWARD!
2) She's with her friends...
3) I want to wait for the right time.
AIM CONVO: (censored so you DJ's dont get all insane on my buddy!)
S--------: well i cant really do it after class
S--------: cuz she is usu. with her group of friends
S--------: and i dont really want to interupt
S--------: fortunately i feel confident i can handle the rest ;-)
j 8 S n X 1: what good is that if u dont get urself to overcome the first obstacle?
S--------: "first obstacle"?
j 8 S n X 1: approach?
S--------: wat's the first obstacle?
S--------: i can approach her
S--------: the thing is i dont know when
S--------: i dont have a good fitting time
j 8 S n X 1: why do u hope for a "perfect time" when u can create one?
S--------: dude thats my point i cant create one.
I've been pushing him to use the C&F, Kino, etc etc. but he won't LISTEN TO ME!!! He already analyzes the badsides of the DJ methods without even experimenting with them! ARGH!
I tell him that it's only awkward since you're trying to do this with a lame mindset.
I tell him, "So what if shes with her friends? Acknowledge all of them and just start a conversation and earn the right to step into the circle of friends."
I tell him, "Why wait for the right time when you can MAKE one?"
It's been going on for quite a long time now, and could use some backup. (I admit, I'm still learning the ways of the DJ, so there are things that I couldn't help him with either!)
What must I say or do to show him that there's really nothing to it?
(PS: No, this is not me. There are other Jason's in this world!!)
J's been having his eyes on this cute asian girl, but he can never bring himself to APPROACH her because he gives me these excuses:
1) It'll be AWKWARD!
2) She's with her friends...
3) I want to wait for the right time.
AIM CONVO: (censored so you DJ's dont get all insane on my buddy!)
S--------: well i cant really do it after class
S--------: cuz she is usu. with her group of friends
S--------: and i dont really want to interupt
S--------: fortunately i feel confident i can handle the rest ;-)
j 8 S n X 1: what good is that if u dont get urself to overcome the first obstacle?
S--------: "first obstacle"?
j 8 S n X 1: approach?
S--------: wat's the first obstacle?
S--------: i can approach her
S--------: the thing is i dont know when
S--------: i dont have a good fitting time
j 8 S n X 1: why do u hope for a "perfect time" when u can create one?
S--------: dude thats my point i cant create one.
I've been pushing him to use the C&F, Kino, etc etc. but he won't LISTEN TO ME!!! He already analyzes the badsides of the DJ methods without even experimenting with them! ARGH!
I tell him that it's only awkward since you're trying to do this with a lame mindset.
I tell him, "So what if shes with her friends? Acknowledge all of them and just start a conversation and earn the right to step into the circle of friends."
I tell him, "Why wait for the right time when you can MAKE one?"
It's been going on for quite a long time now, and could use some backup. (I admit, I'm still learning the ways of the DJ, so there are things that I couldn't help him with either!)
What must I say or do to show him that there's really nothing to it?
(PS: No, this is not me. There are other Jason's in this world!!)