My friends gf called me crying a few days ago. My friend is a regular guy and makes regular guy money. Not close to 6 figures but he does alright and survives. He is in his mid 30s'. He is an awesome dude and I've know him since in was 21 yrs old. His gf is a 7.5/10 rich girl.
She is sobbing on the phone telling me that her friend does not think he is good enough because he is not wealthy. Apparently her friend only "dates" wealthy men. My friends ex said something that I found very interesting. She said her friends make her feel " less of a woman because she can not attract a rich guy".
The gold-digging part did not surprise me. What surprised me is that femininity is judged by the man the woman is able to acquire. When men define themselves by the women they sleep with they are playing into the female paradigm. Men should have an internal measure of success. Let women define themselves by their relationship status. This might explain why women have such a low self esteem even in healthy relationships. Their unsuccessful man may be a constant reflection of their failings as a women. Smh....mgtow is the only way guys.
She is sobbing on the phone telling me that her friend does not think he is good enough because he is not wealthy. Apparently her friend only "dates" wealthy men. My friends ex said something that I found very interesting. She said her friends make her feel " less of a woman because she can not attract a rich guy".
The gold-digging part did not surprise me. What surprised me is that femininity is judged by the man the woman is able to acquire. When men define themselves by the women they sleep with they are playing into the female paradigm. Men should have an internal measure of success. Let women define themselves by their relationship status. This might explain why women have such a low self esteem even in healthy relationships. Their unsuccessful man may be a constant reflection of their failings as a women. Smh....mgtow is the only way guys.