"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Friend added chick i'm going after on FB.

ediceneet12

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So I found out one of my friends
who's better with girls then I am
decided to add a chick i'm going after
onto facebook. Usually I wouldn't let
it bother me but I feel like he has
a thing for her as well and might try
taking her from me.

What should i do homies?
If he starts talking to her
I'm probably going to end up dropping
hanging with this friend. But I don't
want to go to conclusions right now.

EDIT: He said he's not going to talk to her but I still don't see the point
in adding her if he's never met her before.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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LearningSlowly

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You don't own her. What's taking you so long? Ask her out.

No alpha is scared of another man taking his girl. What an alpha wants, he makes a move to get.
 

ediceneet12

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oh **** true i'm thinking irrationally,

i've already asked her out once and we have a day 2 planned
 
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