"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Friend added chick i'm going after on FB.

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ediceneet12

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So I found out one of my friends
who's better with girls then I am
decided to add a chick i'm going after
onto facebook. Usually I wouldn't let
it bother me but I feel like he has
a thing for her as well and might try
taking her from me.

What should i do homies?
If he starts talking to her
I'm probably going to end up dropping
hanging with this friend. But I don't
want to go to conclusions right now.

EDIT: He said he's not going to talk to her but I still don't see the point
in adding her if he's never met her before.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You don't own her. What's taking you so long? Ask her out.

No alpha is scared of another man taking his girl. What an alpha wants, he makes a move to get.
 
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oh **** true i'm thinking irrationally,

i've already asked her out once and we have a day 2 planned
 
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