"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Friend 1 year younger than me, and his group of friends.

Eiljwa

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I have a pretty (well, not very) interesting situation. I have a friend, (next door neighbor too), a year younger than me, who I have know since I was like 3. We have always been pals but lately we have been hanging out with different groups of friends and it has been ages since we hang out with eachother. He hangs out with a lot of very cute girls that I would like to get to know, but I only know some of his guy friends. We don't really talk at school, we acknowledge eachother, but we don't hang out or anything. I guess I am just wondering what would be a good way to go hang out or talk with his friends. Sorry if this is a weird question, but it is not just about the girls either, we have been good friends for ages and barely ever hang out anymore, so I want to hang out with him more and get to know some more of his friends.

P.S. I am a little sleep deprived, so if this makes little sense, I apologize.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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just say hi. Ur an upper classmen they will automaticly respect you.
 

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Thanks guys, some more specific advice would be helpful.
 
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