"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Friend 1 year younger than me, and his group of friends.

Eiljwa

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I have a pretty (well, not very) interesting situation. I have a friend, (next door neighbor too), a year younger than me, who I have know since I was like 3. We have always been pals but lately we have been hanging out with different groups of friends and it has been ages since we hang out with eachother. He hangs out with a lot of very cute girls that I would like to get to know, but I only know some of his guy friends. We don't really talk at school, we acknowledge eachother, but we don't hang out or anything. I guess I am just wondering what would be a good way to go hang out or talk with his friends. Sorry if this is a weird question, but it is not just about the girls either, we have been good friends for ages and barely ever hang out anymore, so I want to hang out with him more and get to know some more of his friends.

P.S. I am a little sleep deprived, so if this makes little sense, I apologize.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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just say hi. Ur an upper classmen they will automaticly respect you.
 

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Thanks guys, some more specific advice would be helpful.
 
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